Mamahood After Trauma | Healing Childhood Trauma, Parenting Triggers & Emotional Regulation for Moms

In this powerful episode, host Emily Cleghorn welcomes Jody Hill, a parenting expert and author who transformed childhood wounds into a mission to help parents harness the superpower of intentional words. Jody vulnerably shares her journey through emotional abandonment, performance-based self-worth, and navigating divorce while raising four young children. She reveals how shifting the language we use—with ourselves and our children—can break generational cycles. A deeply inspiring conversation reminding mothers that healing begins within, and that our words truly shape the confident, capable children we're raising.Connect with Jody: https://podcast.itsjodyhill.com  IG: https://instagram.com/jodyhillparenting  -------------------------------------------------------------------------------
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Take the quiz here: https://emilycleghorncoaching.ca/quiz  If you’re ready to go deeper and connect with a community of women who get it, I’d love to invite you into the Rising Room—our safe space for mamas navigating healing, growth, and motherhood after trauma. Https://emilycleghorncoaching.ca/risingroom
 
💬 And if you’ve got a story, insight, or wisdom to share, I’m always looking for new voices for the podcast! You can connect with me on Podmatch to be a guest and share your experience with our growing community. https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/riseandshinewithemilyc

In this powerful final episode of her August series, Emily Cleghorn tackles one of the hardest challenges for trauma survivors: saying no. Emily explores why "no" feels so dangerous — rooted in nervous system responses shaped by past trauma — and why we over-explain, apologize, and seek permission for our own boundaries. She reframes saying no not as rejection, but as self-trust and self-care. With practical phrases and a weekly challenge, Emily encourages listeners to pause before responding, sit with discomfort, and stop abandoning themselves to keep others comfortable. A deeply affirming reminder: your limits are valid, and you don't need anyone's permission to have them.-----------------------------------------------------------------------
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Take the quiz here: https://emilycleghorncoaching.ca/quiz  If you’re ready to go deeper and connect with a community of women who get it, I’d love to invite you into the Rising Room—our safe space for mamas navigating healing, growth, and motherhood after trauma. Https://emilycleghorncoaching.ca/risingroom
 
💬 And if you’ve got a story, insight, or wisdom to share, I’m always looking for new voices for the podcast! You can connect with me on Podmatch to be a guest and share your experience with our growing community. https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/riseandshinewithemilyc

In this episode of Mamahood After Trauma, host Emily Cleghorn welcomes Dr. Monique Thompson, a licensed professional counselor and trauma-informed life coach with 25 years of experience. Dr. Thompson shares her inspiring journey into trauma recovery work and offers powerful guidance for mothers healing from family-of-origin trauma. She emphasizes building a comprehensive support team, including medical professionals, therapists, and life coaches, while exploring how understanding the nervous system can transform healing. The conversation also highlights the importance of brain-centered self-care and practical strategies to help mothers break cycles and parent with greater calm and confidence.Connect with Dr. Monique: https://www.facebook.com/MoniqueThompsonLPC https://doctormoniquethompson.com/ https://www.instagram.com/drmoniquethompson/ https://www.youtube.com/@mthompsonlpc -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
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Take the quiz here: https://freebie.mamahoodaftertrauma.ca/calmquiz  If you’re ready to go deeper and connect with a community of women who get it, I’d love to invite you into the Rising Room—our safe space for mamas navigating healing, growth, and motherhood after trauma. Https://coaching.mamahoodaftertrauma.ca/risingroom
 
💬 And if you’ve got a story, insight, or wisdom to share, I’m always looking for new voices for the podcast! You can connect with me on Podmatch to be a guest and share your experience with our growing community. https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/riseandshinewithemilyc

In this episode of Mamahood After Trauma, host Emily Cleghorn introduces the powerful concept of "energetic overdraft" — the exhausting cycle of giving more than you have. Speaking directly to trauma survivors who became "the strong one," Emily explores how hyper-independence, people-pleasing, and fear of disappointing others silently drain our reserves.With honesty and compassion, she challenges listeners to examine where they're overspending their energy and reminds them that strength doesn't require carrying everything alone. This episode is an inspiring invitation to choose awareness, embrace rest without guilt, and begin reclaiming yourself — one small, courageous decision at a time.--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
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Take the quiz here: https://freebie.mamahoodaftertrauma.ca/calmquiz  If you’re ready to go deeper and connect with a community of women who get it, I’d love to invite you into the Rising Room—our safe space for mamas navigating healing, growth, and motherhood after trauma. Https://coaching.mamahoodaftertrauma.ca/risingroom
 
💬 And if you’ve got a story, insight, or wisdom to share, I’m always looking for new voices for the podcast! You can connect with me on Podmatch to be a guest and share your experience with our growing community. https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/riseandshinewithemilyc

In this powerful episode, host Emily Cleghorn welcomes Ranae Van Roekel, a trauma survivor, advocate, and founder of Connecting to Cope. Ranae courageously shares her journey from childhood sexual abuse to federal incarceration, revealing how unaddressed trauma shaped her choices. She describes how motherhood became her turning point and how embracing therapy unlocked her path to healing. Ranae reminds listeners that healing is possible at any stage and encourages mamas to seek support without shame. She also introduces Connecting to Cope, her platform dedicated to trauma advocacy and peer support.Connect with Ranae: https://connectingtocope.com/ https://open.spotify.com/show/3IDsA8uuErb027GSQQC7Al https://www.facebook.com/connectingtocope/ https://www.instagram.com/connectingtocope/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/ranae-van-roekel-1b024733a/ https://www.linkedin.com/company/connecting-to-cope/posts/?feedView=all -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
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Take the quiz here: https://freebie.mamahoodaftertrauma.ca/calmquiz  If you’re ready to go deeper and connect with a community of women who get it, I’d love to invite you into the Rising Room—our safe space for mamas navigating healing, growth, and motherhood after trauma. Https://coaching.mamahoodaftertrauma.ca/risingroom
 
💬 And if you’ve got a story, insight, or wisdom to share, I’m always looking for new voices for the podcast! You can connect with me on Podmatch to be a guest and share your experience with our growing community. https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/riseandshinewithemilyc
 

In this powerful episode, host Emily Cleghorn explores why boundaries feel so threatening to trauma survivors.She explains that people-pleasing is a survival strategy rooted in nervous system conditioning — not a character flaw. Emily reframes boundaries as medicine rather than selfishness, clarifying that they govern our own participation, not others' behavior. She addresses guilt as a trauma response rather than a moral compass, and reminds mothers that modeling healthy boundaries is one of the most profound gifts they can offer their children. A practical, permission-giving episode for any mama ready to stop abandoning herself.----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
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Take the quiz here: https://freebie.mamahoodaftertrauma.ca/calmquiz  If you’re ready to go deeper and connect with a community of women who get it, I’d love to invite you into the Rising Room—our safe space for mamas navigating healing, growth, and motherhood after trauma. Https://coaching.mamahoodaftertrauma.ca/risingroom
 
💬 And if you’ve got a story, insight, or wisdom to share, I’m always looking for new voices for the podcast! You can connect with me on Podmatch to be a guest and share your experience with our growing community. https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/riseandshinewithemilyc
 

In this powerful episode of Mamahood After Trauma, host Emily Cleghorn welcomes J. Rosemarie Francis — mom, grandmother, author, and host of the Solo Moms Talk Podcast.Rosemarie courageously shares how being suddenly abandoned by her husband with two young sons shattered her world, unearthing deep-rooted childhood trauma. She opens up about her healing journey, the role of faith in her darkest moments, and how surrendering her struggles to God became her turning point. Now 250 episodes strong, Rosemarie's podcast creates a judgment-free space for single moms to be heard. Her message is clear: you are not alone, and help is available.Connect with J. Rosemarie:  https://www.jrosemarie.com-----------------------------------------------------------------
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Take the quiz here: https://freebie.mamahoodaftertrauma.ca/calmquiz  If you’re ready to go deeper and connect with a community of women who get it, I’d love to invite you into the Rising Room—our safe space for mamas navigating healing, growth, and motherhood after trauma. Https://coaching.mamahoodaftertrauma.ca/risingroom
 
💬 And if you’ve got a story, insight, or wisdom to share, I’m always looking for new voices for the podcast! You can connect with me on Podmatch to be a guest and share your experience with our growing community. https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/riseandshinewithemilyc

You're functioning. You're getting things done. You're taking care of everyone.
But your body is exhausted.
For many trauma survivors, survival mode becomes so normal that we stop noticing the signals telling us we've gone too far—until our bodies force us to stop.
But what if your body isn't betraying you?
What if it's been trying to protect you?
In this episode, we talk about the cost of always being the strong one, why rest can feel so uncomfortable, and how to start listening to your body's whispers before they become screams.
Because healing isn't about learning to handle more.
Sometimes, it's about realizing you don't have to.-------------------------------------------------------------------
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Take the quiz here: https://freebie.mamahoodaftertrauma.ca/calmquiz  If you’re ready to go deeper and connect with a community of women who get it, I’d love to invite you into the Rising Room—our safe space for mamas navigating healing, growth, and motherhood after trauma. Https://coaching.mamahoodaftertrauma.ca/risingroom
 
💬 And if you’ve got a story, insight, or wisdom to share, I’m always looking for new voices for the podcast! You can connect with me on Podmatch to be a guest and share your experience with our growing community. https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/riseandshinewithemilyc
 

In this powerful episode, host Emily Cleghorn welcomes Amanda Scott, author and trauma recovery advocate, who survived 17 years in an abusive marriage. Amanda shares her deeply personal journey of recognizing hidden forms of abuse — emotional, financial, and spiritual — and how self-doubt kept her trapped. She outlines key warning signs, emphasizing that abuse doesn't require physical violence to be real. Amanda's core message is both clear and inspiring: healing begins the moment you decide you deserve better. Her story is a testament to resilience, self-respect, and the transformative power of choosing yourself.Connect with Amanda: https://www.amandajscott.com/latest-book
Take the quiz here: https://freebie.mamahoodaftertrauma.ca/calmquiz  If you’re ready to go deeper and connect with a community of women who get it, I’d love to invite you into the Rising Room—our safe space for mamas navigating healing, growth, and motherhood after trauma. Https://coaching.mamahoodaftertrauma.ca/risingroom
 
💬 And if you’ve got a story, insight, or wisdom to share, I’m always looking for new voices for the podcast! You can connect with me on Podmatch to be a guest and share your experience with our growing community. https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/riseandshinewithemilyc

In this powerful episode, host Emily Cleghorn explores how trauma reshapes self-perception and buries the truest parts of who we are. She gently guides mothers to look beyond survival mode and reconnect with the creativity, confidence, and joy they once knew. Emily reminds listeners that healing isn't about becoming someone new — it's about returning to yourself. She invites mothers to join The Rising Room, a supportive community for continued growth, and encourages them to take her free quiz to discover their next step toward calmer, more confident motherhood.
Take the quiz here: https://freebie.mamahoodaftertrauma.ca/calmquiz  If you’re ready to go deeper and connect with a community of women who get it, I’d love to invite you into the Rising Room—our safe space for mamas navigating healing, growth, and motherhood after trauma. Https://coaching.mamahoodaftertrauma.ca/risingroom
 
💬 And if you’ve got a story, insight, or wisdom to share, I’m always looking for new voices for the podcast! You can connect with me on Podmatch to be a guest and share your experience with our growing community. https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/riseandshinewithemilyc