Mamahood After Trauma | Trauma Informed Parenting, Emotional Regulation for Moms

Guilt, Shame, and Repair: The Emotional Rollercoaster of Motherhood

In this episode of Mamahood After Trauma, host Emily Cleghorn addresses the emotional aftermath mothers face after losing their temper with their children. She normalizes these moments, emphasizing that they do not define motherhood, and highlights the importance of self-regulation, honest repair, and curiosity about personal triggers. Emily introduces the Monthly Piece Pack, a trauma-informed resource for mothers, and encourages listeners to seek support and healing without shame. Her message is clear: true growth comes from how we respond and repair, not from striving for perfection.Grab a copy of "Breaking Free: Parenting in the Midst of Trauma Recovery" here: https://mamahoodaftertrauma.ca/bookshelf
If you’re ready to go deeper and connect with a community of women who get it, I’d love to invite you into the Rising Room—our safe space for mamas navigating healing, growth, and motherhood after trauma. https://www.patreon.com/c/MamahoodAfterTrauma
 
💬 And if you’ve got a story, insight, or wisdom to share, I’m always looking for new voices for the podcast! You can connect with me on Podmatch to be a guest and share your experience with our growing community. https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/riseandshinewithemilyc

Are You Touched Out? How to Talk to Your Partner Without Losing Your Mind!

In this inspiring episode of Mamahood After Trauma, host Emily Cleghorn welcomes Dr. Dan Sneider, a licensed clinical social worker, to discuss the complexities of parenting after trauma. Together, they explore the pressures parents face, the importance of self-care, and the power of intentional communication in relationships. Dr. Sneider offers practical tips—like scheduling dedicated check-ins and grounding exercises—to help couples connect and navigate challenges. Listeners are encouraged to break cycles, foster emotional intimacy, and embrace healing, making this episode a valuable resource for parents seeking growth and connection.Connect with Dr. Dan Sneider: https://theintimacyshift.com/ 
If you’re ready to go deeper and connect with a community of women who get it, I’d love to invite you into the Rising Room—our safe space for mamas navigating healing, growth, and motherhood after trauma. https://www.patreon.com/c/MamahoodAfterTrauma
 
💬 And if you’ve got a story, insight, or wisdom to share, I’m always looking for new voices for the podcast! You can connect with me on Podmatch to be a guest and share your experience with our growing community. https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/riseandshinewithemilyc

Embracing the Mess: How Imperfection Can Lead to Connection

In this episode of Mamahood After Trauma, host Emily Cleghorn challenges the belief that mothers must be fully healed before becoming the parents they aspire to be. Sharing personal stories of imperfection and repair, Emily emphasizes that healing is a continuous journey that happens alongside motherhood. She highlights the importance of modeling accountability and restoring safety after difficult moments, rather than striving for perfection. With compassion and encouragement, Emily reassures trauma-surviving mothers that showing up with love and intention matters most, inspiring them to keep breaking cycles and healing out loud.Grab a copy of "Breaking Free: Parenting in the Midst of Trauma Recovery" here: https://mamahoodaftertrauma.ca/bookshelf
If you’re ready to go deeper and connect with a community of women who get it, I’d love to invite you into the Rising Room—our safe space for mamas navigating healing, growth, and motherhood after trauma. https://www.patreon.com/c/MamahoodAfterTrauma
 
💬 And if you’ve got a story, insight, or wisdom to share, I’m always looking for new voices for the podcast! You can connect with me on Podmatch to be a guest and share your experience with our growing community. https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/riseandshinewithemilyc

Creating Safe Spaces: How to Foster Connection and Healing in Your Family

In this inspiring episode of "Mamahood After Trauma," host Emily Cleghorn welcomes Callie & Kelly, co-founders of Slumberkins, to discuss trauma-informed parenting and healing. Drawing from their backgrounds in education and therapy, Callie & Kelly share how Slumberkins’ tangible tools help families foster emotional regulation and repair. The conversation highlights the challenges of parenting after trauma, the importance of self-compassion, and the power of authentic connection. Listeners are encouraged to embrace imperfection, practice repair, and break generational cycles, creating a foundation of healing and hope for themselves and their children.Connect with Slumberkins here: https://slumberkins.com/ 
If you’re ready to go deeper and connect with a community of women who get it, I’d love to invite you into the Rising Room—our safe space for mamas navigating healing, growth, and motherhood after trauma. https://www.patreon.com/c/MamahoodAfterTrauma
 
💬 And if you’ve got a story, insight, or wisdom to share, I’m always looking for new voices for the podcast! You can connect with me on Podmatch to be a guest and share your experience with our growing community. https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/riseandshinewithemilyc

The Truth About Being a “Perfect Mom” and Why It’s Holding You Back

In this episode of Mamahood After Trauma, host Emily Cleghorn shares her honest journey from ineffective coping strategies—like suppressing emotions and striving for perfection—to embracing self-awareness and gradual change. She discusses how recognizing triggers early, reducing overwhelm, and allowing space for self-compassion transformed her approach to motherhood. Emily emphasizes that true healing comes from understanding, not pressure, and encourages listeners to break cycles and rise with honesty. Her inspiring message reassures mothers that progress is possible, even after setbacks, and that self-awareness is the foundation for lasting change.Grab a copy of "Breaking Free: Parenting in the Midst of Trauma Recovery" here: https://mamahoodaftertrauma.ca/bookshelf
If you’re ready to go deeper and connect with a community of women who get it, I’d love to invite you into the Rising Room—our safe space for mamas navigating healing, growth, and motherhood after trauma. https://www.patreon.com/c/MamahoodAfterTrauma
 
💬 And if you’ve got a story, insight, or wisdom to share, I’m always looking for new voices for the podcast! You can connect with me on Podmatch to be a guest and share your experience with our growing community. https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/riseandshinewithemilyc

Building Resilience: How to Manage Triggers and Embrace Self-Compassion

In this episode of Mamahood After Trauma, host Emily Cleghorn welcomes trauma recovery coach Ali Ryan for an honest, uplifting conversation about healing as a parent. Ali shares her personal journey, the challenges of being triggered, and the emotional ups and downs of recovery. Together, they discuss practical strategies for managing triggers, the importance of self-compassion, and building supportive community. Listeners are reminded that healing is non-linear, and every step toward self-understanding is a powerful act of breaking cycles. The episode inspires parents to embrace their healing journey with courage, kindness, and authenticity.Connect with Ali- www.aliryancoaching.com www.instagram.com/ali_ryan__ 
If you’re ready to go deeper and connect with a community of women who get it, I’d love to invite you into the Rising Room—our safe space for mamas navigating healing, growth, and motherhood after trauma. https://www.patreon.com/c/MamahoodAfterTrauma
 
💬 And if you’ve got a story, insight, or wisdom to share, I’m always looking for new voices for the podcast! You can connect with me on Podmatch to be a guest and share your experience with our growing community. https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/riseandshinewithemilyc

Why "Just Regulate" Is the Worst Advice for Moms Facing Trauma

In this episode of Mamahood After Trauma, host Emily Cleghorn challenges the oversimplified advice often given to mothers about emotional regulation. Drawing from her own experience as a trauma survivor and cycle breaker, Emily explains why “just regulate” is unhelpful, emphasizing that true regulation is a gradual process rooted in self-awareness and understanding of personal triggers. She encourages mothers to be compassionate with themselves, recognize their patterns, and support their healing journey. Emily’s message is both validating and empowering, reminding listeners they are not failing—they are courageously breaking cycles and healing out loud.Grab a copy of "Breaking Free: Parenting in the Midst of Trauma Recovery" here: https://mamahoodaftertrauma.ca/bookshelf 
If you’re ready to go deeper and connect with a community of women who get it, I’d love to invite you into the Rising Room—our safe space for mamas navigating healing, growth, and motherhood after trauma. https://www.patreon.com/c/MamahoodAfterTrauma
 
💬 And if you’ve got a story, insight, or wisdom to share, I’m always looking for new voices for the podcast! You can connect with me on Podmatch to be a guest and share your experience with our growing community. https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/riseandshinewithemilyc

How Can Motherhood Inspire Healing from Trauma and Addiction?

In this inspiring episode of Mamahood After Trauma, host Emily Cleghorn welcomes Leah Johnson, who shares her powerful journey from political success and hidden struggles with trauma, addiction, and mental health, to healing through spirituality and creativity. Leah discusses the importance of self-care, breaking generational cycles, and using motherhood as motivation for transformation. She offers practical healing strategies and emphasizes that facing pain leads to greater joy and connection. Together, Emily and Leah encourage listeners to embrace vulnerability, creativity, and self-compassion on the lifelong path to healing and empowerment.Connect with Leah- www.findingfantasticjoy.com  https://www.facebook.com/leahjohnsondickson/IG- @findingfantasticjoy LinkedIin- www.linkedin.com/in/leah-johnson-findingfantasticjoy Join us inside the Rising Room- https://www.patreon.com/cw/MamahoodAfterTrauma Want to be a guest on Mamahood After Trauma? Send Emily Cleghorn a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/riseandshinewithemilyc 

The Greatest Misconception About Dysregulation in Motherhood

In this episode of Mamahood After Trauma, host Emily Cleghorn explores the hidden shame mothers—especially trauma survivors—feel when they become dysregulated. Sharing her own story, Emily reassures listeners that intense reactions are human responses shaped by past trauma, not signs of failure. She encourages self-compassion, understanding personal triggers, and learning emotional regulation, rather than forcing calmness. Emily inspires mothers to break the cycle of shame, embrace their humanity, and gently support their own healing. This episode offers hope and practical wisdom for mothers seeking to rebuild from the inside out.Get your copy of "Breaking Free: Parenting in the Midst of Trauma Recovery" here- https://mamahoodaftertrauma.ca/bookshelfJoin us in the Rising Room Community here: https://www.patreon.com/cw/MamahoodAfterTrauma Want to be a guest on Mamahood After Trauma? Send Emily Cleghorn a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/riseandshinewithemilyc 

Love, Compassion, and Self-Care: Keys to Thriving as a Mom of a "Spicy" Child

In this inspiring episode of Mamahood After Trauma, host Emily Cleghorn interviews parenting coach Melissa Schultz, who specializes in supporting parents of strong-willed, highly sensitive, or neurodiverse children. Melissa shares her journey, practical strategies for managing challenging behaviors, and emphasizes the importance of self-care for mothers healing from trauma. The conversation offers actionable tips for defusing difficult moments, highlights the power of compassion, and features a moving success story about transforming parent-child relationships. Listeners are encouraged to prioritize their well-being and are invited to connect with Melissa for further support and resources.Connect with Melissa- https://www.melissaschulz.com/free-guide 
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Want to be a guest on Mamahood After Trauma? Send Emily Cleghorn a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/riseandshinewithemilyc